I agree with that. It would get tracked back to you eventually, and if you didn't feel ready to speak up on your own behalf, having to deal with all of that would be devastating. It would also feel like a betrayal of trust to have someone else share something so private about your life without your permission.
Defense would have had a field day with me...
I really, really want to repeat how stupid the judgment system is, and how unfair it is that rapists often get set free while the victim is the one suffering society's disapproval.
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I agree with that. It would get tracked back to you eventually, and if you didn't feel ready to speak up on your own behalf, having to deal with all of that would be devastating. It would also feel like a betrayal of trust to have someone else share something so private about your life without your permission.
Defense would have had a field day with me...
I really, really want to repeat how stupid the judgment system is, and how unfair it is that rapists often get set free while the victim is the one suffering society's disapproval.