ext_34401 ([identity profile] xinda.livejournal.com) wrote in [personal profile] fickle 2005-11-26 02:39 am (UTC)

Understood. Sometimes, some people don't want to say it themselves, but appreciate the help from others. However, if it's because you're not ready, then that is completely understandable as well. Taking it into your own hands like that can be a problem. However, if it's life or death... That's where it becomes more tricky, you know? A(n -ex)friend I knew had gone through something terrible when she was much younger... And anyone I have known has already been "done with it", if you will. I figured it did vary per person, but I was curious. And that is definitely understandable.

As for the defense. [ insult here, I'll keep to myself ] It really is quite unfair. Very much so.

Mhm. I've heard of that. Talking about it helping... Or doing as you said. I hope that with such therapy, in time, it will be less of a "problem" for you when you see things that remind you of it. *hugs you*

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