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Fickle ([personal profile] fickle) wrote2007-02-01 12:00 am

Mkay, 1st February now.

Matt ([livejournal.com profile] daemonsadvocate) and I are officially together.

I'm probably going to be babbling about relationship stuff (along with a full explanation of how/what/when/where/why/WHO) in the future, so if you're interested in hearing that stuff, drop me a comment specifically saying you want to be on my r-life aka romance life filter. ♥

[identity profile] fickle-goddess.livejournal.com 2007-02-02 06:01 am (UTC)(link)
...Included link? The one where I said 'all of you'? It points to my filtered flist, and I think that nobody can read an flist on filter that isn't theirs. XD

And hm, nope, I don't, but I really ought to. Let's see...

Kathy: Best friend since Grade Nine, so that makes eight years or so, currently finishing uni in Manchester, very book-and-maths person. Fate of the Eternal Three (I'm Luck).
Numa: Another best friend since Grade Ten! Goes to uni in Edinburgh, has a boyfriend called Malcolm. Chaos of the Eternal Three.
Svetlin: Ex-boyfriend.
Matt: Current boyfriend.
Savior: [livejournal.com profile] fairly_grimm
Neko: [livejournal.com profile] nekokilala
Dani: [livejournal.com profile] xinda

And I think thats all the people that I mention on a regular basis? I tend not to talk too much about my RL friends on here, so I wouldn't really think that I'd need a Who's Who but I did consider making a future-dated post that could float at the top of my journal so that I'd have somewhere to link people to all my posts about filters, since I filter heavily about home life emo and romance. XD

No worries about the double-post! *was only kidding about needing a Who's Who for your entries though, didn't mean to offend*

[identity profile] raistmimi.livejournal.com 2007-02-02 08:52 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, I see. Sorry, I'm ignorant about these filter things.

I'd give a proper list of my own but I'd need to read through some entries first to see who is mentioned. Just off the top of my head:

Rachel - older sibling who lives in New York
He Who Must Not Be Named (alternatively Eddie) - EXTREMELY strange guy from back home who is kind of my personal hero.
Cody - friend who got kicked out of college. Weird hippie fellow that I still write about and communicate with through LJ
Paul, Bill, Noel, Greg, Billy - all boys at college who are amusing jerks. I spend most of my time with them
Travis - ex boyfriend, also fits into above category
Lizzie and Kelly - rare examples of female friends. I don't see them as much, but we're close
Mairead - the oft mentioned homosexual lover

Haha, I wasn't offended at all. I actually found the idea of making some sort of intro to the blog kind of intriguing, although I probably won't follow up on it.

[identity profile] raistmimi.livejournal.com 2007-02-02 08:53 am (UTC)(link)
And this might be random, but I'm kind of curious about asexuality, since I was idly researching it on the net in order to avoid doing my paper, and came across several different variations and definitions. What does being asexual entail and mean to you, if you don't mind me inquiring?

[identity profile] daemonsadvocate.livejournal.com 2007-02-03 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
Guess I'd put it down as finding the act of sex, or sexual activity unappealing. Generally not wanting sex would be a good thing to put down. Intimacy isn't sex to me, its holding, kissing, long phone calls and extra thoughtful gestures.

Not all that radically different aye?

[identity profile] fickle-goddess.livejournal.com 2007-02-03 08:29 am (UTC)(link)
For me, asexuality in general means a disinterest in sex with a side of possible repulsion.

Asexuality as applied to me means that I don't want to have penetrative sex, oral sex, or any sort of below the waist action in general, really. I'm fine with kissing and other mild messing about, but the thought of anything more isn't a pleasant one. It involves a lot of finding people attractive, but not wanting to sleep with them -- kind of the same way that you admire a Greek statue, really. You don't look at it and go, "Wow, I want to have sex with that." You think about how beautiful it is and for me, it's much the same with actual people.

It's nothing to do with clothing or attitude or modesty or anything like that. It's just the very real actuality of having a sex drive so low as to be non-existant.

Helpful? XD

[identity profile] daemonsadvocate.livejournal.com 2007-02-04 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
*thumbs up* You did a better job than my explanation *hands award*.

[identity profile] fickle-goddess.livejournal.com 2007-02-04 06:17 am (UTC)(link)
Yay, award! *hugs and loves you and it but loves you more*