I'm totally willing to kick him upside the head if you introduce him to me.
And you weren't to blame. You said no. You said no. If he didn't respect that no, the fault is his for ignoring that no.
...Also, apart from anything else, what the fuck?! If someone lets you into their house and is generous enough to give you crash space, you should be grateful to them. Not pushing them for more, and not taking more, especially when it's something that you've been denied for a perfectly valid reason.
*hugs you* Sharing is good. Speaking up about experiences is good too, because it takes the stigma away from them and shows you that even the strongest, most accomplished of people might've had to endure something similar to your own experiences.
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And you weren't to blame. You said no. You said no. If he didn't respect that no, the fault is his for ignoring that no.
...Also, apart from anything else, what the fuck?! If someone lets you into their house and is generous enough to give you crash space, you should be grateful to them. Not pushing them for more, and not taking more, especially when it's something that you've been denied for a perfectly valid reason.
*hugs you* Sharing is good. Speaking up about experiences is good too, because it takes the stigma away from them and shows you that even the strongest, most accomplished of people might've had to endure something similar to your own experiences.