XD There were a lot of statements that could be applied to both genders on that t-shirt, so I just took it as standing up for Asian guys with a final little twist of humor on how you don't usually get Asian chicks with Asian guys in porn.

But apart from that, what exactly is your question? I hadn't really thought that there was a stereotype about women defining themselves by their men. I mean, if you're going out with an idiot or a bigot, then yes, it'll reflect badly on you but it would do the same if that person was your friend or your sister.